Με ελκυει μια κοπελα..

[Curie]

Lucy εγώ πάντως σαν και εσένα στα 15 το πρωτο ένιωσα και από τότε έχει παραμείνει έτσι..δεν πέρασα κάποια τέτοια σύγχυση για να μπορέσω να σου πω από προσωπικού πως την αντιμετώπισα...
για το σεξ νομίζω εξαρτάται στον άνθρωπο πως αντιμετωπίζει αυτό το κομμάτι, δηλαδή αν θέλει να κάνει έρωτα με τον/ην σύντροφο του/ης, εκεί θα το δεις μέσα σε σχέση με το αντίστοιχο πρόσωπο..

τι σε ενοχλεί όμως περισσότερο, το γεγονός ότι θες να ξεκαθαρίσεις και να κατονομάσεις την σεξουαλική σου ταυτότητα; ότι σου ρθε ξαφνικό πάλι; ή παίζει και ρόλο το τι επικρατεί από θέμα προκαταλήψεων στην κοινωνία μας;

Blue Νομίζω το να είσαι τόσο open-minded στην σεξουαλικότητα σε έχει γλιτώσει από πολλές σκέψεις και συγχύσεις έως τώρα αλλά και για το μέλλον...μπράβο σου πάντως που ζεις αυτό που ποθείς, ελπίζω χωρίς προβλήματα από τον όποιον περίγυρο! :)

[λιλιουμ]

Να πεταχτω κι εγω, σαν μανιταρι :P

Kαποτε ειχα βρει μια "λιστα" με πολλη αναλυση και πολλες κατηγοριες, αν και ειναι εναντια λοιπον στο πως βλεπω εγω τα πραγματα, οτι δε χρειαζεται αναλυση και προβληματισμος, στην παραθετω μηπως με καποιον τροπο βοηθηθεις, και να προσθεσω, οτι αυτα τα πραγματα, οπως και τα περισσοτερα σε αυτη τη γη, μπορουν να ειναι ρευστα και να αλλαζουν, οπως και να συγχεονται. Γιαυτο, don't think too much!!

Gender Identity

Some people say gender identity is a social construct, some it depends on identity of a soul. One can self identity in reference to social gender roles, gender behavioral stereotypes, etc. Keep in mind that gender identity is a psychical aspect, and the gender one identifies with not necessarily matches their body’s sex. For now, there’re following ‘labels’ of gender identity:

Genderless- a person who doesn’t label their gender at all (also known as ‘agender’) or doesn’t identify with any gender (male, female or pangender).

Cisgendered- clearly male or female.

Pangendered- also known as third gender, androgyne or bi- gender; describes a person who identifies themself as both male and female or somewhere between those two; sometimes people who ‘switch’ between male and female also call themselves ‘pangendered’.


Person who ‘lacks’ (or wishes to lack) physical sex characteristics is called ‘neutrois’, person who’s body looks ambiguous (somewhat between female and male body characteristics) is reffered to as androgynous. Sometimes ‘androgyny’ refers to both gender identity and physical appearance and ‘androgyny’ and ‘androgyne’ are often used interchangeably.



Sexual orientation

Sexual attraction- a feeling that causes people to desire sexual contact with other person (in simple words- this is when people find someone ‘hot’ and get aroused).

Asexual- a person who isn’t sexually attracted to anyone; this person can have sex drive and sexual fantasies; asexual person not necessarily is also aromantic.

Heterosexual- a person who’s sexually attracted to members of opposite sex/gender.

Homosexual- a person who’s sexually attracted to members of the same sex/gender

Bisexual- someone who experiences sexual attraction to both females and males.

Polysexual- person who experiences sexual attraction towards many (not all) sexes in regards to existence of more than two (female and male) sexes/genders.

Pansexual- someone who experiences sexual attraction towards people, regardless of their gender and sex.

Demisexual- person who experiences sexual attraction only towards people whom they have strong emotional bond with; this term usually is used along with other terms describing sexual and/or romantic orientation.

Pomosexual- person who avoids using sexual labels such as those above.



Romantic orientation

Romantic attraction- ‘romantic drive’ that causes people to desire a romantic relationship with another person (this relationship not necessarily is sexual, it’s based on feelings <you may call it ‘love’ if you like>); this kind of orientation may or may not be the same as sexual orientation. Terms below are mostly used to describe asexual people.


Aromantic- person who isn’t interested in romantic relationship or is incapable of romantic feelings; regardless of what many people think about aromantic people, aromantic person is able to love other people/creatures and isn’t feelingless and may be affectionate; aromantic people may look for stable relationships for whatever reason, also emotional; sexual person can be aromantic.

Hetero- romantic- person who is romantically attracted to (longing for romantic relationship with) people of opposite sex/gender.

Homo- romantic- person who is romantically attracted to (longing for romantic relationship with) people of the same sex/gender.

Biromantic- person who is romantically attracted to both females and males.

Panromantic- person who is romantically attracted to (longing for romantic relationship with) people, regardless of their gender and sex.



Between sexuality and asexuality and romanticity

Sometimes it’s hard to define sexual and romantic orientation. Not everyone who experiences sexual attraction (is sexual) feels the urge to engage in sexual activity- those people may be hyposexual (have low sex drive) or even nonlibidoist (do not have sex drive at all), but there also can be other conditions (physical and/or physical) that cause this state. Sexual person can be anti- sexual or do not wish to engage in sexuality activity for whatever reason.

Many people think asexuality is caused by some health issues. Asexuality became an official sexual orientation and it’s already known, it’s just it and in most cases, it doesn’t change. Asexuality shouldn’t be confused with nonlibidoism (lack of sex drive), anti- sexuality (‘hate’ towards sex) or just fear (and similar feelings) of sexual intercourse. Asexuality as opposite to celibacy, isn’t a choice. Lack of sex drive or sexual desire regardless of cause, not necessarily mean that the person became asexual, even if they feel this way.

Romantic orientation not always is the same as sexual orientation. For example, asexual person can be panromantic and bisexual person can be aromantic. Also, person who is mostly asexual, may desire sexual contact with someone (because of emotional and/or physical reasons), not being attracted to them.