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16-08-2017, 23:59 #76
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).Last edited by FaceOnlyaMotherCouldLove; 17-08-2017 at 22:08.
- 17-08-2017, 00:00 #77
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Τελικά δεν μας είπες όμως; πώς θα τις εκδικηθείς; θα τις καψουρώσεις άσχημα και μετά θα τις πετάξεις άκαρδα στο δρόμο; :p
17-08-2017, 00:00 #78
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Γιαυτο σε ρωτησα επειδη μου ακουστηκε καπως παρανομο!!!
ας σοβαρευτουμε λοιπον και προτεινω να αφησεις τις βλακειες και να ζητήσεις βοηθεια απο ειδικο γιατι συσσωρευεις θυμο σε επικινδυνο βαθμο. Και αυτο οπως καταλαβαινεις δεν ειναι κακο μονο για τις γυναικες που θα τις "εκδικηθεις" με καπως παρανομο τροπο, ειναι κακο και για σενα γιατι γνωριζεις φανταζομαι πως πληρώνονται οι παρανομιες.
Ειπαμε ειναι φορουμ ψυχολογιας αλλα δεν θα κατσουμε να ακουμε να εκτοξευονται και απειλες εδω μεσα!
17-08-2017, 00:03 #79
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).Last edited by FaceOnlyaMotherCouldLove; 17-08-2017 at 22:08.
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17-08-2017, 00:04 #81
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).Last edited by FaceOnlyaMotherCouldLove; 17-08-2017 at 22:08.
17-08-2017, 00:08 #82
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).Last edited by FaceOnlyaMotherCouldLove; 17-08-2017 at 22:08.
17-08-2017, 00:08 #83
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δεν μου απατησες στο ερωτιμα μου. ειναι κατι που θα γινει ειδηση η κατι πιο απλο?. χωρις να μας πεις τι ειναι
17-08-2017, 00:14 #84
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17-08-2017, 00:17 #85
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ΔΕ ΘΕΛΕΙ ΝΑ ΑΚΟΥΣΕΙ.
Εχει καποια διαταραχη! Στο ακυρο μου ειχε στειλει πμ για να μου δειξει φωτο του. Και εχει μαλλια. Και ειναι 1,75
Καποια διαταραχη εχει, με διαστρεβλωμενη εικονα εαυτου. Χωρις ψυχοθεραπεια δε λυνεται αυτο.
17-08-2017, 00:20 #86
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Αντε ρε σοβαρα??επαθα πλακα..τι να πω.ευχομε να πανε ολα καλα.
Υ.Γ
Συγγνωμη αλλα απο που καταλαβες οτι ειναι 1.75
Με τοση ακριβεια απο μια φωτο??
17-08-2017, 00:21 #87
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Οχι, το υψος το εχει γραψει ο ιδιος πολλες φορες. Η φωτο μονο προσωπο ηταν.
17-08-2017, 00:21 #88
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).Last edited by FaceOnlyaMotherCouldLove; 17-08-2017 at 22:09.
17-08-2017, 00:23 #89
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Δεν μιλησα για χάπια! Μπορεις να παρεις βοηθεια από την ψυχοθεραπεία όμως κι ας μη το πιστευεις τώρα.
Και το πρόβλημα σου δεν ειναι ουτε οτι εισαι κοντός ή οτι άλλο ούτε η αυτοπεποίθηση αν θες την γνώμη μου. Το πρόβλημα σου ειναι ακριβώς αυτός ο συσσωρευμένος θυμός που τις φρικάρει μάλλον. Παω στοιχημα οτι ψιλοφοβούνται κιόλας γιαυτό σου απαντάνε ευγενικά και προσπαθούν να σε αποφύγουν. Μια ζωή αυτό θες ; Να σε φοβούνται; Γουστάρεις να σου κάτσει και καμιά από φόβο ή από λύπηση;
Ναι φίλε μου έχεις να χάσεις πολλά "πληρώνοντας". Τα χάπια που τώρα αποφεύγεις θα τα φας με το κουτάλι τότε θες δεν θες και θα γίνεις ζόμπι. Τώρα έχεις ακόμα την ευκαιρία να το αποφύγεις, στο χέρι σου είναι.
Αμα όντως γουστάρεις να βρεις κοπέλα και δεν το λες για δικαιολογία θα κανες οτι περνούσε από το χερι σου για να το πετυχεις και η ψυχοθεραπεια ειναι το πρωτο βημα που χρειάζεται να κανεις.
Διαφορετικά απλά μας δουλευεις εδω κι εχεις βρει για δικαιολογία τις γυναίκες για να ξεσπάσεις τον θυμό που έχεις.
17-08-2017, 00:23 #90
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Σε τρελοκομειο εισαι! Τωρα το καταλαβες? Τι νομιζες οτι ειμαστε λογικοι εδω μεσα??
Σιγα μη βγαλω φωτο που σταλθηκε πριβε, δημοσια.
Ξαναλεω, δεν εχεις προβλημα στο προσωπο, εχεις καποια διαταραχη με διαστρεβλωμενη εικονα εαυτου και εμμονες. Κανε κατι πριν να ειναι αργα.
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