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21-08-2022, 17:17 #1kopela93Guest
Πείτε κάτι θετικό εδώ
Λοιπόν ανοίγω αυτό το θρεντ για να είναι χώρος να εστιάζουμε σε κάτι θετικό, κάτι αισιόδοξο, λίγη ελπίδα, κάτι για το οποίο είμαστε ευγνώμονες, διάφορα πράγματα που θέλαμε να γίνουν κι έγιναν.
Γράψτε εδώ όλα αυτά, ο,τι θέλετε, ας είναι αυτό το θρεντ κάτι που θα μπαίνει κάποιος για να νιώσει καλύτερα. Πολλή μαυρίλα έπεσε. Ξέρω, μπαίνουμε στο φόρουμ για να πούμε τον πόνο μας να μας καταλάβουν αλλά τουλάχιστον ας έχουμε ένα μέρος αφιερωμένο στα καλά της ζωής. Δεν είναι όλα μαύρα η ζωή είναι γκρι. Λοιπόν περιμένω. Τα θετικά πράγματα στη ζωή σας.
- 21-08-2022, 17:50 #2
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τζακ ποτ στο τζοκερ 8.888.888 ευρα σημερα
21-08-2022, 20:02 #3
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μας κάνει πλάκα ο οπαπ.
διαβάζεται κι ανάποδα αν μπερδέψεις τα μηδενικά.
θετικό είναι ότι δεν έχει μνομόνια λένε. από την άλλη δεν πέφτει το φπα ούτε το ρεύμα.
22-08-2022, 11:11 #4
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Επιτέλους μπήκαμε στην τελευταία βδομάδα του Αυγούστου. Να περάσει ο κωλομήνας! Θετικό για εμένα, δεν ξέρω για άλλους!
22-08-2022, 14:15 #5
22-08-2022, 19:33 #6
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Έκλεισα εισιτήρια για τη συναυλία των Νταλάρα - Κότσιρα και χάρηκα... Ανυπομονώ!
Στέκεσαι εδώ, δυο μέτρα μακριά μου όμως για μένα αυτά τα δυο μέτρα είναι ένα αδύνατο ταξίδι...
23-08-2022, 01:53 #7garfieldGuestΓύρισα από το χωριό του πατέρα μου (το λένε και κωμόπολη τρομάρα τους) εκεί που αν δεν έχεις παντρευτεί μέχρι τα 35 είσαι για τον Καιάδα. Ησύχασα από τους μαλακες στην απέναντι καφετέρια που καθονται ολη μέρα και σχολιάζουν και κρίνουν ολο τον κοσμο και δεν μπορείς να βγεις από το σπίτι σου. Γύρισα, ανεπνευσα ελεύθερα τον αέρα της Θεσσαλονίκης και νιώθω σχεδόν ευτυχισμένη σήμερα.
Ρε παιδιά ειλικρινά εσείς που μενετε σε μικρά μερη έχετε το σεβασμό μου. Η κατάσταση εκεί δεν παλεύεται.
23-08-2022, 09:49 #8
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Διακοπές Αύγουστο δεν πάω ποτέ και δεν θα το ήθελα κιόλας ακόμα κι αν μπορούσα. Γενικά οι δικές μου διακοπές τείνουν να είναι πιο πολύ ταξίδια όπου είμαι σε κίνηση και όχι χαλάρωση και δεν με νοιάζει ο ήλιος και η θάλασσα. Τον Αύγουστο δεν τον πάω με τίποτα για άλλους λόγους. Μου τη σπάει η πολλή ζέστη, εδώ που είμαι τα τελευταία χρόνια με εκνευρίζουν τα σόγια που έρχονται και κάποιες μαζώξεις που δεν μπορώ να αποφύγω, δουλεύω πάρα πάρα πολλές ώρες και οι περισσότεροι που συναναστρέφομαι στη δουλειά τον Αύγουστο βγάζουν πάντα τα ψυχολογικά τους στους άλλους και φέρονται πολύ άσχημα και συγκριτικά με όλη αυτή τη βαβούρα και το χαμό δεν αφήνουν καν τα λεφτά που θα αφήσουν π.χ. τον Απρίλιο, τον Μάιο ή τον Σεπτέμβριο οι μισοί επισκέπτες, οι οποίοι είναι πολύ πιο πολιτισμένοι κι ευγενικοί κιόλας.
23-08-2022, 09:51 #9
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23-08-2022, 11:34 #10kopela93GuestA shaman was asked:
What is Poison?
- Anything beyond what we need
is poison. It can be power,
laziness, food, ego, ambition,
vanity, fear, anger or whatever.
Maybe love isn't what we've read about. It's not about
the flowers and the promises. It's not about the kisses
and the hugs. Sometimes love is a friend who
stays.Sometimes, love is someone who chooses you
even when they know their choices come with crazy
consequences. It's that person who listens to you at
2am without making you feel like you're burdening them
with the weight of your heavy heart. It's that person who
truly loves you, even when you tasted of chaos and pain.
Love isn't about grand gestures, talking of plucking the
stars for you or bringing the entire world on your feet. I
don't think love could ever have one fixed definition.
Sometimes as painful as it sounds, love is letting go.
Because their happiness is more important than making
them be stuck in spaces they no longer fit in. Love is
accepting the good and the bad. The happy days, the
sad days and all in between. Love is everything that
gives you the will to go on, the urge to wake up every
day because it makes you feel alive.
-Talesofmaya via Instagram
23-08-2022, 11:36 #11kopela93GuestWhat Love Does
Ruby Dhal
One day you will learn that love does not hurt you or
make you feel misunderstood. Love does not give you
mixed signals or confuse you. Love is not one-sided or
unsure about you, love is not one foot in and one foot
out. Love does not lead you on to leave you or let you go.
Love grips you by the hand and makes you stay. Love
listens to your thoughts and understands you, love knows
that you are not perfect, but it still accepts you with all
your jagged edges and scars. Love appreciates that you
need time and it gives you space for your healing. Love
does not make you feel unworthy, no, love teaches you
that you are worth everything and more. Love does not
hold you back or stop you from flying, love becomes the
reason you spread your wings to touch the sky.
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And the most important lesson of all - love teaches you
new ways to love yourself, every single day.
Ruby Dhal
Let Go
Often, the biggest lesson you can receive is knowing when to
let go. It's so difficult to do - to look at someone who makes
you incredibly happy, but also causes you undeniable pain and
say, 'I am moving on from you'. But it's an action that you need
to take if you care about yourself. It doesn't matter how happy
they make you. If they are also the cause of your sorrow, then
you must leave and not return until you can be just happy in
their presence. This isn't to say that they can't bring you
sorrow, but if there isn't an abundance of happiness and there
is an abundance of pain - then you need to leave in order to
save yourself. If you can never be just happy with them by your
side, if pain will always follow- and outweigh - the happiness
that they bring, then you need to accept that this was as far as
this person was meant to stay in your life.
Often, the most beautiful lessons are the hardest, and leaving
is the most difficult out of the rest to do. But to love yourself,
you need to learn to let go of those who can't give you the
happiness that belongs with you.
23-08-2022, 11:51 #12kopela93GuestLove is a beautiful thing, it really is. When real love knocks on your door at a
time the universe deems right, it will be gentle. It won't be like the love you
thought you once had. With real love, you won't have to stay up all night
drowning in tears wondering what you're not doing right. You won't have to
drown the other person in handuls and handfuls of love to make them
understand how worthy you are. Real love will be so utterly peaceful. They
will adore you in ways you never thought was possible. Their gestures and
words will be soft and pure, and their actions will match. They will have the
kind of light in their eyes that you once had when you were loving the wrong
person. Do you remember how dull and empty their eyes were? How much
the emptiness of their soul and the fullness of yours brought you a pain
beyond comprehension? With someone who is actually worthy of your love,
you will never feel pain. Their eyes will be so soft. They will care about you
the way you have always dreamt of. Your fingers will entwine with theirs
and I swear, life will make sense. You will finally understand why the storm
had to come before flowers could bloom in front of you in the name of your
beloved. With real love, conversations won't have you sweating, screaming
and aching. They won't have you analyzing each and every word a person
says. And most significantly, it won't be unrequited; because you will
magnify each other's light, you will make each other glow. You'll feel like a
bird that finally left its cage. Real love will make you understand that love is
nothing but a four letter word without commitment, care, compromise,
sacrifice, selflessness and affection. You've done so much of the loving, that
when real loves arrives at your doorstep, you will finally taste the sweetness
of what it's like to finally be loved just as much in return. Real love won't be
perfect, but my God, it'll be real.
excerptsofherstory
23-08-2022, 11:53 #13kopela93GuestA REMINDER FOR
THE WEEK AHEAD
Alysha Waghorn - ThirdEyeThoughts
You're amazing. You can do amazing things.
You're capable and strong, resilient and brave.
You are awfully clever when you put your mind
to work. So do it - put your mind to work. Figure it
out, whatever it is. Be the person who goes after
what they want. You've got this. I know you do.
Hold your head high darling. Eyes open. Spine
straight. There is so much magic around you. You
are magic. You are worthy of all your wildest,
most reckless dreams. Do something this week,
one thing, that brings you closer to the all you've
been dreaming of. Take control of the narrative.
Go after what sets your soul on fire
Here's the truth: You won't need to prove your worth to
the right people. Your loyalty won't need to be "tested"
with the right people. You won't have to buckle your
heart down on emotional rollercoasters with the right
people. You wont feel dismissed, or unsure, or optional
with the right people. Stop avoiding your gut feeling
when it tells you that you aren't appreciated, or valued,
or respected. Reassurance is a must. People that are
meant for us will bring us ease. We won't have to let
them go or force them to stay, because they're meant to be
in our lives. Remember, don't be convinced that when
someone is only giving you bits and pieces, its because
that's all you deserve. You don't deserve anything less
than what you give out; and the truth is that they can only
offer you what they themselves are capable of giving.
Once you realize that their inability to give you what you
actually deserve is not your fault and has nothing to do
with you, you'll stop pitying yourself and accepting less
from the wrong people.
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23-08-2022, 11:55 #14kopela93GuestThings I Regret The Most (Part 1)
Saying the witty but unkind thing. Caring too much about what
people who don't like me think. Breaking myself trying to make
those people care. Double texting that guy who I knew deep
down would still leave me on read (he did). Begging to be
understood by someone who already decided they didn't want
to understand me. Trying too hard. Not trying enough. Not
trying at all. Giving into my anger in unhealthy ways. Focusing
too much on the future rather than a beautiful moment I had
slipping through my fingers. Believing I had to be perfect in
order to be loved. Believing I had to be perfect in order to be
seen. Believing I had to be perfect at all. Skipping therapy.
Putting the bare minimum on a pedestal. Apologizing to
someone who owed me the apology. Not apologizing to
someone I definitely should have. Not forgiving myself sooner.
Pretending to not give a damn about the things I care deeply
about. Forgetting I'm allowed to be human.
Molly Burford
I'm still trying to learn that a lot of the times, it has
nothing to do with you. People's emotions and mood
and hence their behaviour and attitude, are a simply a
reflection of what they are going through and their
personal life experiences. I'm still trying to grasp the
fact that we shouldn't always feel responsible for
how other people treat us. It's not because there is
something wrong with us, it's just that there is a
greater web of complex emotions behind the scenes
of other people's lives. I'm still trying to accept that
we shouldn't always start pointing fingers at our own
self-worth because of other people's behaviour. It's
not always black and white. Humans are complex,
and we can't always overanalyze the "whys" and
"hows" behind everything people do.
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23-08-2022, 11:59 #15kopela93GuestThe real challenge of moving forward is our deep-rooted
attachment to the person we used to be. Sometimes, wve can't move
on from certain people because we miss the person we used to be.
We miss how we used to feel. We miss how we loved them (be it a
friend or a lover or anyone else) and we miss the the bond we had
created in our mind. If you think about it, this says a lot about your
character. Even if they disrespected you and treated you
wrongfully, you loved them. And you don't miss the ill treatment,
but you miss the love you had for them. You miss having them in
your life, because your heart still saw the good in them regardless
of all the bad. This means you're a really loving person, and anyone
would be lucky to have a friend or partner like you in their life. It
all comes down to who is actually worthy of you. I know you miss
them, but remember -your selt respect is more important than
anything. You were mistreated and taken for granted you don't
deserve that. Remember, they were never on a pedestal to begin
with, it was your soft nature that put them on a pedestal. I know
you miss the person you used to be, but no person has the power to
change you. You were a loving person and you will always be
loving person. You will meet new people and you will love them
the same because it is in your nature to do so. No one can take that
gift away from you.
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