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17-08-2017, 21:59 #181
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).
- 17-08-2017, 22:08 #182
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Πειτε κι αλλα πειτε κι αλλα, ακομα δεν ειναι ωρα να επεμβουν οι μοντς. Βριστε λιγο παραπανω, αυξηστε τις σελιδες.
17-08-2017, 22:14 #183
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17-08-2017, 22:19 #184
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Έχω συναναστραφεί ανθρώπους που ήταν αντικειμενικά άσχημοι αλλά και αυτοπεποίθηση είχαν και χιούμορ, και επικοινωνιακοί και κάνανε μια χαρά σχέσεις με αντικειμενικά ομορφότερες από εκείνους. Πίστεψέ με, στο internet μπορείς να βρεις οτιδήποτε θες για να στηρίξεις μια άποψη, όποια και να είναι αυτή. Εδώ άλλος ποστάρει δήθεν επιστημονικές μελέτες πως η κατάθλιψη θεραπεύεται με βαλσαμόχορτο...
17-08-2017, 22:22 #185
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17-08-2017, 22:23 #186
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17-08-2017, 22:26 #187
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Ας επεμβουν οι διαχειριστες να κλειδωθε το θεμα η δεν ξερω τι θα κανουν.ειναι κριμα να πληγωετε ετσι ο ενας τον αλλον και με τους καυγαδες ακρη δεν βγενει και δεν βοηθιετε κανεις γνωμη μου..
17-08-2017, 22:34 #188
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17-08-2017, 22:45 #189
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).
17-08-2017, 22:49 #190
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Απαγορεύονται τα πολλαπλά ποστ φίλε. Δεν κερδίζεις κάτι.
Τέλος πάντων.Κάνε την αδυναμία σου, ΔΥΝΑΜΗ.
17-08-2017, 22:49 #191
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Έτσι γίνεται πάντα... όταν θέλει ο άνθρωπος να αποποιηθεί κάθε ευθύνη για αυτό που είναι, τα βάζει με την κοινωνία, το κράτος, τις π... τις γυναίκες, το σύστημα, τους μασόνους, το οτι μας ψεκάζουν, μέχρι και τον Αδάμ και την Εύα.... καμία σωτηρία.
17-08-2017, 22:54 #192
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17-08-2017, 22:54 #193
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Confidence is built upon past success and the belief that your future efforts will be rewarded. When you're an ugly guy whose life has been spent in a vacuum of validation and whose attempts with women have been met with nothing but rejection and failure, it's impossible to develop anything but a thin veneer of confidence papering over a cripplingly low self-esteem.
As for the debate over the respective importance of personality and looks in attraction, I think you need to recognize that they're not entirely independent. Your personality is shaped by your experiences, and if you're ugly, those experiences are going to be largely negative. You'll be deprived of the social opportunities more attractive people have and you'll have less of a chance to develop your social skills. An ugly guy probably spends thousands of hours less time socializing during his teenage years and as a result, grows into a depressive, humorless, boring, self-centered mess (i.e., his personality will come to reflect his face and be just as unattractive).
17-08-2017, 22:54 #194
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Πολλα υποτιθεται οτι απαγορευονται, αλλα αμα φερνουν πολλα κλικς, αναγνωσιμοτητα και νεα μελη.... ο ντορος κανει το φορουμ εμπορικο και "πετυχημενο"
17-08-2017, 22:57 #195
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το οτι διαβαζω μονο στο ιντερνετ για ασχημους με ωραιες εξηγει πολλα για το ποσο μπορουν να μετρανε πραγματα περα απο την εμφανιση
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